Cards For Connection

Date Night, Upgraded

It's easy to fall into a rhythm where every conversation revolves around calendars, chores, or who's picking up the next roll of toilet paper. Those conversations are essential, and being invested in the logistics together can make you feel close, but emotional intimacy flourishes through a variety of intentional connections.

The Gottman Institute emphasizes the power of small things often—regular, meaningful moments of connection that build intimacy and trust over time.

Play helps us soften, invites curiosity, laughter, and presence. It reminds us of who we are and what we bring to each other’s lives.

If you're looking for more of that connection and closeness, something that's just for the two of you, this little game is one way in. It’s a low-pressure, open-ended opportunity for understanding each other. We recommend pairing these prompts with a favorite snack (if you’ve kids, maybe something you’d hate to have to share with them) and use this as an excuse to sit down together for something other than logistics.

Light some candles. Put on music. Pour drinks. Assemble a “girl dinner,” Adult Lunchable, or a fully unhinged charcuterie board. Or just heat up a frozen pizza and call it romance. The point is: make it yours.